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Gottman outlines the findings, tools and techniques that have helped thousands of couples from around the world build a sound relationship house. The couple married for 62 years didnt stay married. Love is defined in psychology as a social phenomenon and is one of the foremost preoccupations of humankind. He then quickly becomes bored and begins thinking of his next challenge. Geometric group theory preliminary version under revision.
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